Unassuming

4 discourses
Also known as: courteous, respectful, unpretentious, not cheeky
Pāli: appagabbha, sorata
Related: Politeness

In The Path of Dhamma (Dhammapada)

Dhammapada verses 235-255 emphasize on the urgency of striving swiftly, not being negligent, discerning gradually, stains of various qualities. A contrast is drawn on the lives of one who is shameless and one with a sense of right and wrong, on finding the faults of others and one's own, and on the path of the Tathāgatas.

In As It Was Said (Itivuttaka)

There is no other single external factor as helpful as good friendship for a trainee bhikkhu who is aspiring for the highest goal.

In The Buddha's Ancient Discourses (Sutta Nipāta)

The Buddha describes the conduct of a person who is said to be ‘peaceful’. Such a person is free from craving before the breakup of body. He is one who examines distinctions in all contacts, withdrawn, straightforward, unassuming, unmoved amid views, not holding to a construct, and for whom, there is no ‘mine’ in the world.

In Linked Discourses (Saṃyutta Nikāya)

The Buddha explains the cause and condition by which a person comes to be recognized as aggressive or gentle. He illuminates how the presence or absence of passion, aversion, and illusion determines whether one is susceptible to provocation and reacts with anger, or remains unshaken.

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