Bhikkhunī Khemāperson

A laywoman should wish for her daughter to become like the foremost female lay disciples Khujjuttarā and Nandamātā, and if she goes forth, may acquisitions, respect, and popularity not come upon her while she is still a trainee.

Who should faithful disciples aspire to emulate, and how do wise people differ from the immature in praise, confidence, and conduct toward parents and the Buddha?