The Buddha teaches on a family, presenting a sevenfold teaching for disciples on the path.

AN 7.13 A Family

“Sattahi, bhikkhave, aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā nālaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā nālaṁ upanisīdituṁ. Katamehi sattahi? Na manāpena paccuṭṭhenti, na manāpena abhivādenti, na manāpena āsanaṁ denti, santamassa pariguhanti, bahukampi thokaṁ denti, paṇītampi lūkhaṁ denti, asakkaccaṁ denti no sakkaccaṁ. Imehi kho, bhikkhave, sattahi aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā nālaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā nālaṁ upanisīdituṁ.

Sattahi, bhikkhave, aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā alaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā alaṁ upanisīdituṁ. Katamehi sattahi? Manāpena paccuṭṭhenti, manāpena abhivādenti, manāpena āsanaṁ denti, santamassa na pariguhanti, bahukampi bahukaṁ denti, paṇītampi paṇītaṁ denti, sakkaccaṁ denti no asakkaccaṁ. Imehi kho, bhikkhave, sattahi aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā alaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā alaṁ upanisīditun”ti.

Tatiyaṁ.

Reference Translation by Bhikkhu Sujato (CC0).

“Sattahi, bhikkhave, aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā nālaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā nālaṁ upanisīdituṁ.

“Mendicants, visiting a family with seven factors is not worthwhile, or if you’ve already arrived, sitting down is not worthwhile.

Katamehi sattahi?

What seven?

Na manāpena paccuṭṭhenti, na manāpena abhivādenti, na manāpena āsanaṁ denti, santamassa pariguhanti, bahukampi thokaṁ denti, paṇītampi lūkhaṁ denti, asakkaccaṁ denti no sakkaccaṁ.

They don’t politely rise, bow, or offer a seat. They hide what they have. Even when they have much they give little. Even when they have fine things they give coarse things. They give carelessly, not carefully.

Imehi kho, bhikkhave, sattahi aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā nālaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā nālaṁ upanisīdituṁ.

Visiting a family with these seven factors is not worthwhile, or if you’ve already arrived, sitting down is not worthwhile.

Sattahi, bhikkhave, aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā alaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā alaṁ upanisīdituṁ.

Visiting a family with seven factors is worthwhile, or if you’ve already arrived, sitting down is worthwhile.

Katamehi sattahi?

What seven?

Manāpena paccuṭṭhenti, manāpena abhivādenti, manāpena āsanaṁ denti, santamassa na pariguhanti, bahukampi bahukaṁ denti, paṇītampi paṇītaṁ denti, sakkaccaṁ denti no asakkaccaṁ.

They politely rise, bow, and offer a seat. They don’t hide what they have. When they have much they give much. When they have refined things they give refined things. They give carefully, not carelessly.

Imehi kho, bhikkhave, sattahi aṅgehi samannāgataṁ kulaṁ anupagantvā alaṁ upagantuṁ, upagantvā alaṁ upanisīditun”ti.

Visiting a family with these seven factors is worthwhile, or if you’ve already arrived, sitting down is worthwhile.”

Tatiyaṁ.

Qualities:

Wisdom

Wisdom

Lived understanding and sound judgment that steers the mind away from suffering, distinct from mere accumulation of facts.

Also known as: (of a person) wise, astute, intelligent, learned, skilled, firm, stable, steadfast, an experiential understanding of the four noble truths
Pāli: paññā, medhā, dhīra, paṇḍita, asammūḷha
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