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A mental quality of tender affection and fond regard, often wholesome when rooted in kindness, which inclines the mind toward warmth and care. When unguarded, it may turn toward fixation upon what is 'dear,' leading the mind to attachment and the grief that follows separation from what has been clung to as 'dear'.
Also known as: fondness, love, tender regard
Pāli: pema
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Loving Kindness

Loving Kindness

The practice of developing boundless love and goodwill toward all beings, starting with oneself and extending outward.

Also known as: metta practice, unconditional love, goodwill meditation, goodwill, benevolence, kindness, friendliness
Pāli: mettā, metta, abyāpāda, abyāpajja
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Compassion

Compassion

A mental quality of wise empathy in response to suffering, which counters qualities of harm or cruelty.

Also known as: benevolence, concern, sympathy, kindness towards those who are suffering
Pāli: karuṇā, anukampa
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Dearness

Dearness

A mental quality of holding something or someone as 'dear' through attachment, which binds the mind with craving and possessiveness. It is the external fixation upon what the mind clings to, often giving rise to envy, quarrels, and sorrow.

Also known as: beloved, cherished, pleasing
Pāli: piya
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Opposite
Aversion

Aversion

A rejecting mental quality rooted in perception, where one instinctively turns away from or resists unpleasant experiences or objects; it manifests as a tendency to push away discomfort, obstructing patience and acceptance.

Also known as: animosity, hate, hostility, fault-finding mindset, upset
Pāli: dosa, paṭighasaññā, vera
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Discourses

MN 66 Laṭukikopama sutta - Simile of the Quail

The Buddha explains how even small attachments can be strong fetters if not relinquished, using similes of a quail and an elephant, and contrasts between the poor and wealthy. He describes four types of practitioners based on their response to attachment and mindfulness. The discourse also presents gradual refinement of meditative attainments from the first jhāna to the cessation of perception and what is felt.

PTS 1.447–1.455

AN 4.200 Pema sutta - Affection

The Buddha explains how four modes of social partiality—affection and aversion arising in relation to others—bind beings to the world. He shows how a bhikkhu transcends these entanglements by means of the jhānas and attains final liberation through uprooting the deep-seated conceits of self-making.

PTS 2.213–2.216

AN 6.30 Anuttariya sutta - Unsurpassable

The Buddha describes the six unsurpassable things among seeing, listening, acquisitions, training, service, and recollection.

PTS 3.325–3.328

SNP 4.15 Attadaṇḍa sutta - Arming Oneself

The Buddha shares in poignant terms his observations on the agitation all beings experience which led to his urgency to awaken. He then shares on the path to awakening and describes the dwelling of an awakened being.

PTS 182–184

UD 8.8 Visākhā sutta - Discourse to Visākhā

The Blessed One teaches Visākhā on the nature of attachment and suffering.

PTS 91

SN 42.11 Bhadraka sutta - With Bhadraka

The Buddha explains to the headman Bhadraka the root cause of suffering through a direct and relatable inquiry. When Bhadraka admits to feeling sorrow when those he cares about are harmed, the Buddha skillfully reveals that such sorrow arises not from the events themselves but from one’s own attachment and desire.

PTS 4.327–4.329

SNP 2.5 Sūciloma sutta - With Sūciloma

Confronted by the native spirit Sūciloma, the Blessed One answers a question on the origins of passion, hatred, and discontent.

PTS 47–48

AN 8.2 Paññā sutta - Wisdom

The Buddha explains the eight causes and conditions that lead to the attainment, further development, growth, cultivation, and fulfillment of wisdom that pertains to the fundamentals of the spiritual life.

PTS 4.151–4.154

UD 2.7 Ekaputtaka sutta - Only Young Son

Inspired utterance on practicing diligently to leave behind what seems pleasant.

PTS 14

UD 5.1 Piyatara sutta - Dearer

King Pasenadi of Kosala and Queen Mallikā discuss who is dearer to them.

PTS 47

DHP 209–220 Piya vagga - Chapter 16 - Beloved

DhammaPada verses 209–220 explore the danger of attachment to what is pleasing, how sorrow and fear arise from the beloved, affection, delight, sensual pleasures, and craving, who is dear to the people, who flows upstream, and on the importance of merit.

PTS 60–62

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