The Buddha describes the eight ways in which a man binds a woman.

PTS 4.197–4.203

AN 8.18 Dutiyabandhana sutta - Bond (Second)

“Aṭṭhahi, bhikkhave, ākārehi puriso itthiṁ bandhati. Katamehi aṭṭhahi?

“Bhikkhus, a man binds a woman in eight ways. What eight?

Ruṇṇena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati;
hasitena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati;
bhaṇitena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati;
ākappena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati;
vanabhaṅgena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati;
gandhena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati;
rasena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati;
phassena, bhikkhave, puriso itthiṁ bandhati.

1.) A man binds a woman with crying;
2.) A man binds a woman with laughter;
3.) A man binds a woman with talk;
4.) A man binds a woman with deportment;
5.) A man binds a woman with a gift;
6.) A man binds a woman with scent;
7.) A man binds a woman with taste;
8.) A man binds a woman with touch.

Imehi kho, bhikkhave, aṭṭhahākārehi puriso itthiṁ bandhati. Te, bhikkhave, sattā subaddhā, ye phassena baddhā”ti.

These, bhikkhus, are the eight ways in which a man binds a woman. And, bhikkhus, those beings who are bound by touch are thoroughly bound.”

Qualities:

Attachment

Attachment

A mental fastening onto people, things, views, or states as “me” or “mine,” unwilling to release them. This clinging can give a sense of security and sweetness.

Also known as: acquisition, bond, clinging, grasping, holding on, possession, entanglement, bound, connected, taking as mine
Pāli: upadhi, upādāna, sakiñcana, mamatta
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